We now live in an age when PrEP gives HIV-negative men and women extra precaution against HIV transmission — a precaution that, according to every statistic available, is more dependable than regular condom use. When you use a hose, relax your ass and let the water run out freely. Those synthetic, sculpted veins can be sharp and very painful. It is probably not the best thing to do, but neither is excessive cleaning or really rough sex, which can cause hemorrhoids and fissures and other ailments. I always have to make sure things are good down there before having sex. There are different exercises you can do to train your hip muscles and lower back muscles to make you a better bottom. Many guys prefer spit — I do — but spit typically will not work for rough sex or extended play.
I am not sweepingly anti-drug, although I believe certain substances — heroin, meth — should be avoided.
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If you clean out with a douching bulb or enema, take your time. I admittedly do not masturbate as much as I used to, and it takes me much longer to cum when I do not have something in me. As gay men, a good portion of some of our lives will be dedicated to the art and craft of anal sex. I know some guys who are good to go after one squirt. When I was little, my father would drag my sister and me out in the cold morning in camouflage outfits and orange hats to sit with him in a deer stand and practice shooting his gun. However, when you see red, it is a sign that you have gone too rough or perhaps have not used enough lube, and it is time to stop.