So experiment with the settings on your shower head to find out what feels best. I learnt how to finger my sexual parts with outstanding results, to cum freely. The key is learning to relax. Check out the Orgasm Guide for tips and help. Using a vibrator is a great way to stimulate your clitoris without having to overwork your fingers.
Instead of jumping right into touching yourself, why not set off slowly and get your other senses tingling?
How to Masturbate with a Vagina: 28 Tips and Tricks for Solo Play
I have been trying to get an orgasm for the past few years, but have unsuccessful. Get on all fours, then put your face down on your bed or floor so your backside is higher in the air. Here are just a few to try out:. For some women, the U Spot can extend higher than in this illustration, to right below the clitoris. To take some on my fingers to taste then my own cum.