I orgasmed from oral and fingers and toys, but I knew it was different to the mind-blowing thing I was always a step away from. This article originally appeared on whimn. Log in No account? We began having sex regularly and every time I was having orgasm after orgasm! He had apparently read a book about Christian marriage and totally committed to trying oral sex. Being open about our desires and sexual appetites is a big part of feminism and gender equality; it is also an important step towards demolishing the stigma and shame that is forced upon our femininity and as a result, our sexuality. After a couple of drinks, I was chatting quietly with my new friend when I confessed that my body was broken and I was unable to orgasm.
Am I doing something wrong?
The Story of My First Orgasm
I orgasmed from oral and fingers and toys, but I knew it was different to the mind-blowing thing I was always a step away from. After a few times, I would orgasm and the urge to wee was gone. I talk openly to my partner about my daily masturbation session, I enjoy procuring a range of sex toys to aid me in my quest for the best solo-orgasm possible, and I have no qualms in making myself cum in front of him, as and when the situation arises. But the other day without thinking I started playing with myself and it felt so good so I went faster and faster and I came! I read about it in a book and I wanted to try it to see how it feels. It was awkward, of course, but pleasurable all the same. It made me feel nice.